Your daughter who got married a year ago is going to get divorced. Do you agree with her decision or do you object to it? Give your reasons.

If my daughter is going through a divorce, it is a harrowing experience for her and it is also difficult for me to see someone you love suffering and doubting their choices about her relationship, as well as potentially losing her faith in their self-esteem and ability to cope. Being there for my daughter is an important part of parenting.

Firstly I’ll leave out the "I told you so". I can’t make a decision for her but I can show my support and help her in any situation. It is obvious that I will be against divorce and will advise her to save her family. I’ll try to explain that the first years in marriage are the most difficult for young couples. And divorce - the easiest solution of all problems.

Firstly I’ll advise her to have sincere talk with her husband, they have to clarify what they need to change. Also they can start to do something together (go to gym), start to have common hobbies. If they can’t solve their problems by themselves, they can go to family psychologist.

Using of these techniques can help too: Negotiate, Barter, Compromise and Sacrifice.

Your 35-year-old son is a bachelor. Worried about the fact that he is single you set about looking for a match for him. What criteria would you use in picking out a good match?

(тут деякі не в тій відміні шо треба, то просто на хоу переролюйте на SHE )

Is that new woman really the woman for you? Will you enjoy being with her for a long time, or will your relationship eventually head into disaster territory? Unless you can see into the future, you will not know for sure. However, there are some indicators that your relationship is going to stand the test of time. Following are six of those indicators.

Mrs. Right Has No Unresolved Issues

Past issues that have not been resolved are often referred to as baggage. That baggage can cause major problems down the road in your relationship. Common unresolved issues involve trust and self-esteem. For instance, if she has been cheated on in the past, and she has not dealt with that and let it go, then she may be holding on to feelings of anxiety and mistrust. Later on in your relationship that mistrust can manifest itself into blame, anger, and hurt because your relationship has not been built on trust (the backbone of a healthy relationship) due to her inability to completely trust you. If she has no issues, and has dealt with her past in a way that has allowed her to move on, then you get to start your relationship with a clean slate. This will allow you to move forward in a happy, baggage-free manner.

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